I need to get this off my chest

I dont normally use my website space to post up personal stuff, but my website (to me) is really the place that I feel the safest. This is my area to express myself and be me - uncensored and without judgement. But yesterday I was suprisingly accused of actions ive never done - and while normally I have the attitude of *well water of a ducks back* some things in life cant and shouldnt be ignored, especially when they are untrue. So I had a friends request come through on facebook over a week ago - someone that I had been friends with on there years ago (in fact i went to school with this person) so ya know .... there is a history there. Anyways I get this friend request and then for over a week, almost 2 weeks, no comments, no communication from them - nothing what so ever....

And then yesterday - i get this instant message coming up on face book messenger and while i cant quote it word for word it went along these lines.... Hi there mate - where are you living now? its been way too long, sorry i had to unfriend you a while ago, my kids kept looking at my facebook account and at that time you were posting alot of pictures i didnt want them to see... sorry .. how have you been? I honest to god just sat their with my mouth dropped open in absolute shock at the audacity of the message - because let me hand on heart tell you - NEVER have i ever posted inappropriate pictures on facebook EVER.

It took me a little while to think of a response because i thought FUCK SAKE how do i even respond to THAT

my initial response (being as kind as i could under the circumstances was) HI ******** not really sure what pictures you think i was posting, Ive never posted anything inappropriate ... but you do what ever you need to do .... hope you well - take care and then after it eating me a little more (because lets face it - the accusations she made are wrong) i replied back with - you know what - in hindsight and just on the off chance i post anything that you feel i could possibly offend with let me just unfriend you and save you and your family an inconvenience... To which she replied back about an hour later - saying - "no need to unfriend me - but at the time you were posting nude pictures of men on facebook and my 5 year old was playing games and saw them... then she said - oh maybe it wasnt you - perhaps it was one of your friends ......

at this point ive just not bothered to respond and i deleted her off facebook .....

not that i need to validate myself to anyone - but let me just state for the record - that i have never EVER in my life posted any nudity to facebook - it is actually against facebook user policy to do so and the fact is that i have loads of family and friends who are my facebook friends - so why would i post nude pictures of men on my page??

anyone who sees my website or my facebook page knows its pretty much XENA related and always has been....

what it boils down to is this ..... this person - while she claims to be this wholesome christian person, is nothing but a hatful judgemental human being. She takes issues with gay people .... that is what this is all boiling down to... she claims she had to unfriend me years ago - when the actually truth is - that i unfriended her because she kept pushing her agenda on to me - kept asking me to go along to her church and tried to (in her mind SAVE ME) people like this are wolves in sheeps clothing - they claim to be wholesome and good and kind but they are the worst kind of people. They are nasty judgemental people...

I will never apologise for my life - i am sorry that for some out there - they dont like my lifestyle - but to have false accusations made because they dont like my lifestyle makes them the worst kind of human being... I am sorry if this all seems like a huge overshare - but i really needed a space to get this off my chest ...